Monday, February 7, 2011
Do u think being nice all the way is a good thing? sometimes your intention is to help the one you care or love to reach their dreams thinking that if they are happy, u're happy too. I've gone through this and i tell u it's not worth to give all out to help them. Why? not all will thank you for your effort. Instead they say it is their effort that they are where they want to be. Some better still they will say they don't want to be with you as they want to achieve more in life a.k.a "you are the obstacle to his success". How interesting, so if any of u face this, please beware cause u might end up getting hurt like me. So my piece of advice, if u really-really want to help, this is what you can do instead.
1. Let him handle it on his own. ( his ego don't like it when u do for him it appears that as if he is hopeless)
2. Drop small hints (if you think the pace he is going for his dreams is really slow)
3. Better still compete or do things together with him if u're chasing for the same dream.
Hope this pointers help..
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